Fluttering Alert: Bridal Questions

While waiting for the subs, why don’t you answer the questions here? @tsutsuloo already posted hers and I’m copying them here.

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These are her answers. Mine are in italics. Where’s your post, @agdr03? And @oli? And yours, @lmangla, if you’re lurking here?

Who made the first move?Interesting because this relationship has had a lot of back-and-forths. They made simultaneous good impressions sight-unseen but it was Yoo-Jung who burst into Woo-Hyun’s life vomiting and ugly-crying. And it was she who insisted that they share breakfast together. And it was she who asked him to date per her Unni’s recommendation. But … it was Woo-Hyun who sealed the deal by co-opting the press conference. I lean towards Yoo-Jungfor making all the overtures and apologies in the beginning.
Who takes longer to get ready?Uri Yoo-Jung likes her products and has to dress carefully for the camera. Woo-Hyun is has neat appearance but we never see him use any PPL products. I lean towards Yoo-Jungbut I bet she’s efficient.
Who said, “I love you” first?Technically, neither of them has actually said it, right? Yoo-Jung is the one who probed for clarification following the kiss and, during the surfing date, she asked him would’ve liked her if she wasn’t an actress. I’m favoring YJ to be the first because she’s the one who takes things to the next level. Could see it going either way.
Who is the best cook?They’re both excellent cooks though Yoo-Jung has more experience cooking for larger groups.
Who is the best dancer? With years of pilates and hoop work,Yoo-Jung’s is strong, lithe and beautiful. She loves to dance and we’ve seen how awkward Woo-Hyun was during their beach side date. Just like when the actors were in their twenties on that variety show.
Who is more romantic? This is a hard one for me. Yoo-Jung has ideas of romantic gestures, shaped by her profession and general squishy sensibilities. But Woo-Hyun is all out adorable when he wants to do something sweet for his person. I give it to Woo-Hyun for snatching his love away for the oceanside date.
Who is the big spender? Neither of them seem like spendthrifts. Yoo-Jung helped secure the clinic’s bank loan and is generally she’s been cautious about offending WH with anything expensive. The hand-knit scarf, her gift of the art thing, her handwritten notes and modest apology gifts are all gifts from the heart and not expensive. For now, I’d call Woo-Hyun the bigger spender because he spent the money specifically to lavish on Yoo-Jung.
Who is the better driver? Yoo-Jung’s driving is improving but she still looks like she whispers “10 am and 2pm” when she puts her hand on the wheel. For now, Woo-Hyun’s the better driver.
Who is messier? They’re both pretty neat and YJ’s the type of person who cleans when frustrated or anxious. My answer: Neither are messy but I can imagine Yoo-Jung leaving toothpaste squirtings on the sink.
Who met the future in-laws first? You know who—by 2 decades!
Who is planning the honeymoon?Woo-Hyun seems like the more operational of the two but, who knows?
Who paid for the first date? Technically,wasn’t it Unni? 😜
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Who made the first move?

I think WooHyun noticed her first and he expressed a desire to meet her. He said with regrets, “I wanted to meet her because she seemed like a good person. Somehow this is how I meet her.” Also, he piqued her curiosity when he feigned ignorance of her identity. If he hadn’t made a fuss, teased her that she was a idol (which is insulting because she’s an actress), and rejected her offer to give him 50 autographs, she wouldn’t have remembered him as that “odd guy.” 

Who takes longer to get ready?

YooJung. Because she makes her beautiful. Also given the nature of her job, she must pay attention to her appearance more than he does. She also has the patience to try on, what? 100 dresses? for a photo-shoot while he gave up after a few “struggles.”

But she can get ready in no time if needed, for example, when he slept over because of his injury. Although her blusher made her look like she was flushed from over-drinking, she can put her make-up on in less than a minute.

This doesn’t mean that he’s a slob because he’s always look neat in his attire. But he doesn’t fuss.

I also liked that he doesn’t seem to mind that she takes her sweet time getting ready. Remember how he accompanied her shopping for clothes? My husband wouldn’t do that. lol. 

Who said “I love you” first?

Neither have said the exact words “I love you” but I think in his roundabout way, he told her that he liked her. I’ll copy and abridge my early post on “Truth and Consequences.”

WH: (he starts) Being an actress, is it difficult or happy?
YH: Hmmm….it’s difficult but happy. The number of women you’ve dates so far is more than five or not? (he drinks)
YH: Ah, you could just answer that! If you drink that, your wound won’t heal right! Gosh, really. I should have guessed it would be more than five. (she looked ticked off with him, hahaha.)
WH: Do you like someone who gives you butterflies or someone you feel comfortable with?
YH: Oh, that’s easy. Someone who gives me butterflies. (she clears her throat) When you have someone you like (darting a look at him) you go for it and confess or not?
WH: I don’t know. (lifts his glass but she grabs it)
YH: How could you not know? This is a truth game!
WH: It’s because it’s the TRUTH game that I’m answering honestly. (He meant it all depends on the situation and whether the girl is going to be receptive or not) There’s someone who gave you butterflies in the last week or not?
YH: In the last week?
He nods his head. She begins to drink — to his surprise — then changes her mind.
YH: There is. (he nods his head)

At this point, she admitted feeling butterflies for him but she doesn’t exactly know what that “fluttery” feeling meant. Remember she’s wary of reading too much into her emotions because she’d been hurt before.

YH: (continuing) This chair…what’s the meaning behind giving it as a present?
WH: A spot has opened up for someone else to me.

For WH, an empty spot is slightly different. WH has always set an extra spot at the table when he eats. Back then, YJ asked him whether he did this because he didn’t like to feel lonely or because he had a person he wanted to be eating a meal with. He didn’t respond but I always assumed it was both. Now, he was giving her this chair. To me this chair was both his INVITATION for her to sit with him, so he wouldn’t feel lonely, and his very subtle CONFESSION that he finally found someone he wanted to be eating a meal with. This is the deeper meaning when he said that “a spot has opened up for someone.” Unfortunately, however, this is when the effects of the alcohol kicks in for YJ so she becomes slow-witted.

WH: This person who made you feel butterflies…does that mean you like that person?
YH: I don’t know. I’d like it if that’s what it means. (She pours herself another glass.) Someone you had no feelings for, could you kiss them or not?
WH: I couldn’t. (he moves closer) If I had no feelings for someone, I could never kiss them.

So, there. He had feelings for her. And he did declare himself first.

Who’s the best cook?

It depends how you define “best”. WooHyun has more experience cooking as he did it for himself all these years. But YJ probably knows the “fancier” dishes. WH wouldn’t have needed to know elaborate dishes as he was only cooking for one.

Who’s the best dancer?

YooJung, especially when she’s drunk. No contest there.

Who’s more romantic?

I find that kdrama writers are generally biased. They project their notions of romance onto their lead character of the opposite sex. Meaning, a female writer will create a more romantic guy than a romantic girl.

But I really like the little notes that YooJung made for him and the “sorry box” and the painting she drew for him and turned into an “event.” I like her sneaky way of inviting herself to stay with him when he was injured (she was turning herself into a housewife) and fussing over him. I like her ring and scarf gift to him.

Who’s the big spender?

He’s buying her clothes, right? I assumed it’s WooHyun because guys in Korea pay for the date.

Who is the better driver?

WooHyun. Seems like YooJung still can’t talk and drive at the same time. In Episode 14, she had to slam on the break to avoid something in front of them.

Meanwhile, WooHyun can hold hands and drive. hahaha.

Who is messier?

Their rooms seem to be neat and she does clean up when she’s agitated. But her house however has more clutter than his. His condo is minimalist. I think if she doesn’t organize and clean up after herself daily, her living space can get messy quickly.

Who met the future in-laws first?

Although he’s been spending all this time with YJ’s father, he didn’t know his relationship with YJ till this Episode. I say YooJung met her in-laws first just because she actually KNEW that she was meeting his mother and her future mother-in-law. She comported herself as a dutiful daughter-in-law would. Slaving over her kitchen to prepare her MIL healthy food and making her a gift basket.

Who is planning the honeymoon?

Traditionally, the bride plans/takes the lead on the wedding while the groom plans the honeymoon. Since he already planned the beach trip, I think he can plan the honeymoon, too.

Who paid for the first date?

Did they spend anything on their first date? It was a car date, then they strolled for a bit, then went to his home. I think social conventions dictated that he paid for their date and WH seems to be a conservative, conventional sort of guy.

Okay, now it’s your turn.

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Updated: @agdr03’s response.

1 – Who made the first move? WH because he kissed her first.
2 – Who takes longer to get ready? Not either of them base on that scene after they talked about whether WH will kiss a person without feeling anything. They both came out at the same time from their room. You’d think YJ will be late because she has to look extra pretty but no 🙂
3 – Who said I love you first? WH because for the first time ever, his happy and not lonely anymore. I can imagine that he actually said ‘saranghe’ to YJ after their kiss on their beach getaway.
4 – Who is the best cook? WH definitely. YJ is too busy with her work as an actress. It doesn’t mean she’s a bad cook ok 🙂
5 – Who is the best dancer? YJ 🙂
6 – Who is more romantic? I agree with @tsutsuloo ! WH thought of taking her away for the weekend and they had a great time except for the last part 🙂
7 – Who is the big spender? WH because he wants to try and do everything for YJ who is his first girlfriend 🙂
8 – Who is the better driver? WH definitely but I give credit to YJ for driving WH back home after he recovered from his stabbing. I thought that’s A+ for effort 🙂
9 – Who is messier? Neither one of them. We didn’t really see them as messy especially their unit/house.
10 – Who met the future in-law’s first? WH 🙂 It’s a pity that they didn’t have a conversation about that time that he saw YJ and his Dad at her Mom’s wake.
11 – Who is planning the honeymoon? YJ asked marriage first already so I gather WH is in charge of the honeymoon 😉
12 – Who paid for the first date? WH because he’s a gentleman 🙂

 

2 Comments On “Fluttering Alert: Bridal Questions”

  1. Trying to catch up on your posts.

    This is so fun… My answers for the Guess Who questions..

    1. Who made the first move?
    Woo Hyeon! Remember he gave her a special mask on her first visit to the clinic. Yes, he sealed the deal by making the announcement at the conference, he declared YJ is his woman to HJM over the phone, he kissed her first…

    2. who takes longer to get ready?
    Woo Hyeon! Hahaha. Remember the morning after they returned from their overnight date, WH and YJ came out of their room the same time.. YJ needs to out on makeup etc and she came out the same time as WH who does not need much prep.

    3.Who said I love you first?
    WOO Hyeon! Not directly but when he announced his breakup with YJ, he did say he loved her right? Unless I remembered wrongly.

    4.Who is the best cook?
    Agree with @tsutsuloo that both are great cooks. They have both complimented each other’s cooking right?

    5.Who is the best dancer?
    Agree with the both you that Yoo Jeong wins hands down.

    6.Who is more romantic?
    They are both romantic in their own way. All their gifts are so thoughtful.. I would go with @packmule3 and give it to Yoo Jeong for all her handmade gifts.

    7.Who’s the big spender?
    Agree with @tsutsuloo that neither are big spenders. They are very prudent in their spending. WH is extremely generous when spending on things and people he loves, e.g. Buying many clothes for YJ.

    Who is the better driver?
    Agree with both of you that Woo Hyeon is a better driver. He not only could hold hands while driving, he could look at YJ too!! 😊

    8. Who is messier?
    Yoo Jung! When she woke up from her drunked state at WH’s house, she was not concerned about tidying herself up first. She was also throwing things everywhere when she was binge eating when Unnie stopped her from meeting WH. Hehehe.

    9.Who met the future in-laws first?
    Yoo Jung! She met WH’s mum when she was hospitalized and on her own initiative to help patch things between them!!

    10.Who is planning the honeymoon?
    Woo Hyeon will be the one planning the honeymoon. She will be too busy doing that..she has an overseas assignment coming up right?

    11.Who paid for the first date?
    The staged first date or their real first date?
    Both dates are in the car right?😉
    The first date after their reconciliation… Woo Hyeon paid for it!!

    Waiting for the last two episodes with mixed feelings… Happy to know we will have more heart fluttering moments.. Sad that I will miss the discussions….

  2. Oh yeeaaah! He did offer to give her a special mask. I’d wondered what was in that facial mask that it would cost so much. Diamonds? Snail 🐌 cream?

    And wasn’t it funny that the nurse had wanted to introduce them but YJ was called away by her then boyfriend? Not only his mother was trying to arrange “introductions” for him, so did his staff. 😂

    Yes, I’m sad too that this show’s ending. It’s been so much fun with the heart-Fluttering moments.

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