Bitch Talk: In Search of Back Hugs

Just lead me to them. Tell me your favorite back hugs or give me the youtube and I’ll post them here.

Now that I’m married I like back hugs. But when I was young and single, any guy who  crept up behind me and wrapped his arms around my waist, would end up with an elbow to his tummy or flipped on his back.

I like back hugs because they make me feel like I can lean on somebody and rest for a moment in the protection of somebody. I like back hugs when I’m watching a parade, washing dishes, singing along in a concert in a park, deciding on what clothes to wear, watching sunsets, reading the mail, standing still, and just joking around.

I don’t like back hugs when I’m putting on my mascara (for the obvious reason that I hate poking my eye).

In the future, I want back hugs from my grandchildren, too.

My collection of back hugs.

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No, I don’t like back hugs when I’m on the phone.

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Was there a back hug in “Pinocchio”? I want to finish watching that kdrama now.

This looks fun.

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This is the kind of back hug I dole out, though. It’s more like back squeeze.

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Edited to add:

from @agdr03, Goong or the “Princess Hour”, starting @6:12

 

54 Comments On “Bitch Talk: In Search of Back Hugs”

  1. I love those back hugs that you mentioned too but I think the only times I’ve gotten back hugs was when hubby was trying to get back on my good graces. LOL!

    Below is my favorite back hug in kdrama even if it’s very short. I like it because even with all the misunderstandings between them, it was the only way for Shin to show his love for Chaekyung. Made extra sweet with the front hug and kiss on her head. 🙂

  2. got it! Thanks.

  3. Growing Beautifully (GB)

    Ah @agdr03 I loved Goong/Princess Hours. It was my first kdrama and I watched it like 6 times and re-watched some of the OTP scenes more times than that. I was so frustrated with Shin that he couldn’t say a nice, warm word. But that hug and head kiss more than the back hug, made up for it. 😀

    Thanks @packmule3 … I enjoyed the back hugs. I really liked the Healer hugs and kisses and those in I Hear Your Voice as well. Great that you’ve got them curated here!

  4. 🙌🏻 @Growing Beautifully 😉

    Goong/Princess Hours is my first kdrama too and I’ve loved it ever since. I was like you, watched everything about it. ☺️

  5. I need more back hugs!! When I see more, I’ll post them.

    I remember when Shin ran away with his ex-girlfriend. I wanted him to grovel for abandoning her during Prince William’s state visit. hahaha.

  6. Good evening! 🙂

    There should be more back hugs somewhere. hehehe

    How about their first night together and they were supposed to do the deed. LOL! That was funny!

  7. Who? Situ Mo and Gu WeiYi? What episode? I don’t think I’ve seen it.

  8. Oh I was referring to Shin and Chaekyung but STM and GWY’s first night was funny too. 🤣

    It’s episode 22. GWY was devastated. Totally Understandable 🤣

  9. Tell me please!!! I feel like skipping now. What? Did she fall asleep on him?
    I’m getting my dramas mixed up now because I’m watching too many.

  10. Everything was set but but ……………………………

    he couldn’t DO IT! He didn’t know how! 🤣

  11. What??!!! How could he not know how?
    You mean, he didn’t know the mechanics? But didn’t SHE know it, too? She could have helped him out if he was clueless.
    Or he needed vi.a.g..r.a? What the heck?!
    hahahahahaha
    I’ve got to watch this episode soon.

  12. It was more the mechanics 🤣

    I don’t think STM knew either. LOL! She said didn’t you say there’s the theory and practice? He said be quiet. 🤣 I don’t think the v.i.a.g.r.a was needed but I think he was really stumped at what he needed to do. 🤣 🤣 🤣

    Tell me what you think when you watch it. 🙂

  13. Facepalm!

    No! Make if a face-desk! I want to pound my forehead on the desk.

    Here’s a guy who knows how to make hand dynamos and reconfigure a robot vacuum but he doesn’t know how to insert his “plug” in her “wall socket”??

    Ugh! Whatever. hahaha.

    Aren’t you glad our Best Drama Boyfriend was Xiao Nai??

  14. he doesn’t know how to insert his “plug” in her “wall socket”??

    This had me in stitches 😂

    He’ll get there later but don’t ask me how he finally ‘knew’ , maybe it’s the long distance between China and Germany. 😄 We can’t fault him too much as he is very innocent that way? 😆

  15. Oh I am very glad that Xiao Nai is our Best Drama Boyfriend because not only does he know how to do it but most importantly for me is when to do it. 😉

  16. Growing Beautifully (GB)

    LOL, I think I did say somewhere that it was something he had to look up on the Internet … probably from a scientific website. It literally gave line drawings of the internal female anatomy. He needed his references, a book, a mentor,… you know the usual scholarly way of getting info.

    She was surprised when he suddenly knew how. He’d done his research!!!

  17. Aha! So you were the one who mentioned it. I wasn’t sure whether I read it or I watched somewhere else. But I’m viewing too many dramas simultaneously that I’m not sure anymore if I watched it for real or simply imagined it.

    Too many choices on netflix, viki AND youtube!

  18. Yes.
    Timing is critical. (wink)

  19. Speaking of Yang Yang, he has a new cdrama called The Kings Avatar. Another esport thingy series. There’s a lot of characters so I’ll just follow it for him again. 😊

    I saw a few post about Angel’s Last Mission and it looks funny. But like you I don’t feel Shin Hye Sun 😞 but L is soooo cute, those dimples 😍

  20. I’m getting the hang of Shin Hye Sun. There’s nothing wrong with her acting. It’s on point. But it’s her physical appearance that I find difficult to watch; she’s not easy on the eyes.

    I came for Kim Myungsoo though. I told you right? He was “almost” in my top 4 idol-actor list. Maybe I can swap him for Kyungsoo Do since Kyungsoo Do will gone for 2 years. Hmmm… is this considered fangirl adultery?

    What I like about this show is that it doesn’t make a fuss about their age difference. Good! It treats the noona-donsaeng relationship as a non-issue. (Well I think SHS’ character must be older.)

  21. Hahaha fangirl adultery 😆

    It will be if you officially replace D.O with him in your top 4 while D.O is away 😉 But if you just follow his dramas etc then I don’t think it’s fangirl adultery.

    Shin Hye Sun is actually doing well with dramas after dramas. I just wish YEH is the same. I want her to do another drama with Jun Ji Hoon. I want to see whether their chemistry is still there. 😊

  22. I’ve a weakness for dimples and Kim Myungsoo’s dimples are cute. But I also know that he’s working his dimples in every scene.

    But he’s no match for D.O. D.O doesn’t rely on a lot of facial expressions and body movements to communicate like Kim Myungsoo. He can articulate an emotion without words, and with just a glance.

    As for Kim Myungsoo, his acting is like pantomime. He’s easy to understand because he gesticulates a lot.

    That’s okay. He’ll learn. And at least, he’s not awkward and stiff.

    YEH and Jun Ji Hoon? Hmmm… I don’t mind them in a kdrama again but I think they’ve got separate ways now… artistically speaking.

  23. Hi there!

    Agree that D.O. can express emotions without relying on facial/body movements and even just at a glance. I have only seen Kim Myungsoo on this drama, well bits and pieces on ig so it’s his dimples that’s definitely grabbing me. LOL!

    Yes, YEH and Jun Ji Hoon have gone separate ways in terms of acting. He is way ahead for me, I have to admit. Don’t worry about a drama for them. JJH is in talks to star with Song Hye Kyo in a drama. For some reason I cannot watch SHK knowing that she’s married. I loved DOTS and I think I just can’t get past her as any character now. 🙂 This is just me.

  24. lol. Too funny. I can’t watch SHK after Full House. 🙂
    Are you watching her hubby’s new kdrama?

  25. Oh it’s on Netflix too isn’t it? But nah, I’m not interested at all. Cdramas are taking up our time. 😆

    I’ll start on Your Highness, Class Monitor tonight. ☺️

  26. Waaaaaa! I’ve started on YHCM last night and I am in!!! 🙂

    I’m on episode 3 already and so far so good. I can’t wait on how they will become friends then boyfriend/girlfriend. They have chemistry too which is a must for me. Imagine her trying to stab him with a fork when they meet again! I was like ‘omg’!. 😮

  27. Oh I forgot to say that it’s very funny! hahaha

    Though it looks like there’s a few angst too so I’m ready to cry as well! 😉

  28. It’s a quick watch for me. I just fast-forwarded to their scenes. I liked the second male lead, too. He knew where the ladies’ rooms are (I bet he made it a point to find out their locations for her) and I liked the way he wrapped his shirt around her to cover her ripped pants. He’s beating our male lead, Gu Zi Chen, to the punch because GZC is too slow to react to NianNian’s needs.

  29. lol. Did you cry when the mom died?? I couldn’t bec the computer-generated graphics of her being hit by the vehicle was too funny.

  30. I’m behind you on watching this one. LOL!

    Agree on the second male lead, Mr Wonferful No 2, he has that baby cute face that cannot do anything wrong. 🙂

    It’s a bit weird that the whole university only has 8 girls in it. hehehe

  31. Did you watch Ep 4? There’s another swoon-worthy gesture that Mr. Wonderful 2 did for NianNian. I think I’ll make gifs later. 🙂

    Uh-oh. I think ZiChen has to step up his game. He should be feeling jealous and protective of her anytime soon.

  32. Waaaaaaaaaa! I’m not up to that part yet where his Mom died. Poor thing. I love the way he takes care of her. Such a good son.

    I might not cry with the way you described it. LOL!

    You’re too quick on this cdrama! hahahah

  33. I’m not surprised that Mr Wonderful No 1 is slow, mainly because of – 1) the fork stabbing which lead to the internet article and 2) the mouse face make up that NianNian did to him. LOL!

    Hopefully he will be able to beat Mr Wonderful No 2 in the swoon-worthy gestures. 🙂

  34. No. It’s HER mom who died. In Episode 1. She got hit by a truck or something.

    Hmmm…wait a second. I think I got my Chinese dramas mixed up. lol. It’s another Cdrama starring Fair Xing: Master Devil Do Not Kiss Me.
    Sorry.

    The mom didn’t die (at least, as of Episode 4) in Your Highness, Class Monitor.

  35. Yes. The mouse facepaint was a creative revenge for cleaning up his vomit.

    I don’t mind that ZiChen is slow. You know what they say: the more he resists falling in love, the harder he’ll fall in love. 🙂

  36. Oh ok. But Mr Wonderful No 2’s Mom is sick on the scenes I’ve seen.

  37. ‘the harder he’ll fall in love.’

    I cannot wait! 🙂

  38. The mom’s sick. His mother’s illness is the reason he didn’t go to ?? university (Beijing University?). He didn’t want to leave his mother alone. He’s a filial son.
    The three musketeers/bullies are annoying but they have sob stories so they’ll be redeemed in the end.

  39. Ah yes I remember that and didn’t she say too because they can’t afford it?

    I think NianNian likes that head of that three musketeers group right? She said she’s got her crush and I thought it was him.

    What episode are you watching?

  40. I skimmed through Ep 6 this morning. I hurried through the episodes bec I wanted to see if there were similarities in Fair Xing’s characters and acting style. I’m sure I skipped some character details but oh well….

    No. She doesn’t like that head of the Three Musketeers. The one with the pony tail. Thank goodness! He looks rough.

    She likes somebody else who went to X prestigious college she would have gone to, if she didn’t miss that college entrance exam of hers.

  41. Ah thanks! I thought it might be him because of the way he turned (camera shot) to look at her when he knocked her bag off her.

    He looks mean but like you said there’s a story behind it. 🙂

    I am only on episode 4.

  42. If I was to create a matching game here, then the Pony-Tailed Guy would end up with the Tomboy Roommate and Mr Wonderful #2 would match up with Boy-Crazy Roommate. 😂

    You’ll see the romantic moment soon then. Towards the end of Ep 4.

  43. Bingo! 👌

    That’s what I saw in some ig posts. You have the matchmaking skills to a T! 😉

    That Boy-Crazy Roommate is something! hahaha

  44. The 45-min episodes are shortened to 25 when I skip the roommates and classmates scenes. I proceed directly to the ZiChen, Niannian and #2 scenes. 😜

  45. Since when you have watched dramas like that? LOL!

    When I watch a drama I watch everything BUT when it’s re-watching time then I use the fast forward button. hehehe

  46. 😂 It isn’t often that I get to see an actress star in back-to-back romcoms with different leading men. I wanted to see if I would feel a sort of jealousy.

    Nope! It didn’t bother me that she was playing against “Old Man Yu” from Love O2O instead of Gu Wei Yi from PYHOMS.

    Btw, did you see that the name of the dad of ZiChen (the lead male) is Gu Wei Ye? Ye instead Yi, according to the subs in Ep 2 but it’s close enough for me. 🙂

  47. Same here! I usually get jealous of the next leading lady for the leading man that I like but I’m with you on this one! Old Man Yu suits her too especially when they make that close eye contact near the ladies toilet because he was hiding from the secretary. 😄

    High five 🙌🏻 girlfriend!

    Ah yes the Dad’s name, Mr Gu. What about Niannian’s name? It starts with Su- SuTu Mo before 😁

    Funny that he graduated from Princeton University but he can’t say electric welding in English. 😂

    Good morning! ☀️

  48. 🤣 Yeah Princeton because all “princes” must end up in PRINCEton. I didn’t mind the name dropping but I was a bit ruffled when the father said that ZiChen acquired bad manners while staying in the US and implied that he had to relearn manners in a “third-rate” university in Dongzhen. 😂

    I was watching another drama where the lead female was asked what she wanted to do. She replied that she wanted to do X bec one, it was fun and two, she was good at it. Her interviewer commented that she was very “western” in mindset. 🙂

    I know what the writer is trying to say about Western vs Asian mentality: it’s very American to be hedonistic (i.e., pleasure-seeking) and individualistic (i.e., it’s all about me). If she had been a filial child, then there was no way she’d pick X career.

    I thought to myself, “The Ministry of Culture strikes again.” 😂

  49. Hahaha The Ministry of Culture didn’t strike in PYHOMS 😆

    But seriously, who wouldn’t develop bad manners when you didn’t want to study overseas anyway but you had no choice. I really wonder what’s the big issue with their relationship.

    I was shocked at their conversation when he first came home after arriving from the US. It was too much from me.

  50. But I like what Mr Wonderful 2 (or was it the mom) said. ZiChen always made a big fuss and rebelled, but he’d end up doing it anyway.

    No, in PYHOMS, Gu WeiYi told Situ Mo’s mom that Situ Mo should follow her dreams. Thus she gave up accounting and went to advertising. Gu WeiYi himself insisted on doing things his way, too. I was surprised in the earlier episodes when he didn’t show his physics advisor the “proper” respect and refused to retake the test.

  51. I thought episode 7 is up already but no 😁

    I’ll start watching My True Friend now so I’ll have two cdramas. 😊

  52. Ah it was Mr Wonderful 2 who said that. So true that he followed his parents anyway even if he didn’t like it. ☺️

    Yes, the Professor followed him everywhere just to get him to do the exam. GWY was stubborn that way.

    Mr Wonderful 2 is way ahead on the swoon worthy scenes now. He put his jacket on Nian Nian when she was sleeping on the school desk, telling her that he is there so she doesn’t need to be scared and even dropping her at the dorm. Meanwhile Mr Wonderful 1 is just thinking about her 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

  53. Pretty Noona :/watch?v=Cotuc-IY4PI at 1:15. All the drama has a lot of great scenes :p

  54. Thanks. Will check it out.

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