Love Lasts Forever: KoiTsudu vs Itazura

Note: this is unfinished. I’ll have to edit to add pictures, but I don’t have my other laptop with me.

Many viewers like to point out that LLF (or “KoiTsudu” as it’s called by fans) is similar to “Itazura na Kiss” and I say yes and no.

There’s no doubt that the two doramas use the same tropes because these tropes come pretty standard in mangas. Like, they both use the “opposites attract” trope. The hero is brilliant but cold, and the heroine is clueless but warm-hearted. Also, they both use the “awkward confession” trope to establish that the hero is a jerk from the start because he publicly humiliated the girl.

But that’s where the similarity ends: at the trope-level.

If we look closely at the KoiTsudu, we see that Nanase isn’t at all stupid; she’s just inexperienced.

For example, their first encounter. She had the wits about her to rush to the old woman’s side, and to shout out for help. In fact, Tendo praised her for her quick-thinking. Because she acted, she was able to save the woman’s life.

She gave Tendo the woman’s inhaler, followed his order to call the ambulance, and knew where to look in order to get the woman’s name. She might not have known how to do CPR and chess compressions (ha! Take that Maggot fans), but she isn’t stupid.

By Episode 6, when she rescued the old man, and recited to the EMT a summary of their emergency intervention, Tendo was in awe of her. He realized that she was a far cry from the helpless girl that she once was.

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By Episode 9, she was triage-ing the victims in the crash accident site alongside him while she herself was badly wounded. He insisted that she rested because he feared (and he had a premonition?) for her well-being but she insisted on helping because that was what he had trained her to do: tend to the sick in an emergency.

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She didn’t realize it, but she accomplished her goal of someday being able to support him.

“Someday, I want to be able to support you.”

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Now, I didn’t see this much growth in the heroine of Itazura. She’s a bumbling fool from beginning to end.

Additionally, Tendo isn’t a jerk like the hero in Itazura. The hero in Itazura reminds me of the disease du jour in kdramas: antisocial personality disorder.

His mental condition goes uncensured because the audience was taken by his genius. By and large, viewers excused his antisocial behavior as reasonable. They regarded his cruelty and impatience as warranted because she was foolish. They didn’t consider his misbehavior as symptoms of a superiority complex or antisocial personality disorder.

Despite everything going for him: loving family, financial wealth, social status, and an IQ of 180, he couldn’t bring himself to show her civil kindness. He distanced himself from her because she was ranked second-to-the-last in their class. To parody Elizabeth Bennet’s words of rejection in “Pride and Prejudice,” I had not known the hero more than two episodes before I felt that he was the last man in the world whom the heroine should ever be prevailed on to marry.

lol.

The Itazura male lead’s arrogance and his snobbery wrecked him as a viable hero.

In contrast, Tendo’s longtime colleagues knew that his personality changed only after the death of his ex-girlfriend. Nanase understood this by Episode 3. She told him that he might think that he couldn’t overcome the death of someone precious to him, so he buried himself in work and forgot to be happy. She knew that she could make him smile again.

Happy. Happy. Happy.

See the difference? Both Itazura and KoiTsudu, use the “Love conquers all” trope.

In Itazura, it’s a bit of a stretch to expect the heroine to change the guy into something he never was to begin with. In the end, he still felt superior to her, and it rankles me to no end that that his superiority complex has been just been glossed over by his patronizing attitude. Toxic male alert.

In KoiTsudu, Tendo acknowledged that he changed because of her.

And he knew that she was more than what he deserved.

“She’s always so pure and honest. I’m always surprised by her inner strength. You won’t believe how much she has given me. She’s way too good for me.”

As cheesy as it sounds, that needs be said.

Same trope, different outcome.

Furthermore, the transformation of the hero wasn’t done hurriedly, in the last episode, as if to appease the feminist sensibilities of bitches like me.

I don’t about the manga but in this dorama, the ending of every episode of KoiTsudu shows the hero waking up to his mistake. (Lol! He’s part of the “woke” culture.) In fact, the theme music of KoiTsudu is a signal to the viewers that Tendo is getting his comeuppance and his epiphany.

Whenever this is played in the final minutes, that’s the moment Tendo realizes that Nanase has stumped him. She’s confounded him and forced him to see her in a different light.

Episode 1. He unknowingly revealed that he remembered her from five years ago. Not only could he recall the time and place of the accident, he also distinctly remembered her worried look. That made an impression on him.

Episode 2. Although he thought the concept of “Team Tendo” was silly, he was forced to admit that he actually liked her to be on Team Tendo. He was patting her back, and telling her that they have to move on from death, when the theme song came on.

Tendo: Make sure you eat and sleep. (turns to leave)
Nanase: (curious to know why he’s comforting her) Why? You told me so many times how I was so bad and I was in your way.
Tendo: Because aren’t you on Team Tendo?

Episode 3. He was speechless when she drunkenly told him that she wanted to make him smile. Whether it’s wry smile, a faint smile, or a raucous laughter. She was happy with anything as long as he was happy. The music was playing in the background as he watched her peacefully sleeping on his shoulder. He tried to hide a smile. Normally, he would have found her goofy smile gross, but at that moment, he found her endearing.

Episode 4. The music played when Nanase suddenly remembered his promise to her in the ambulance. He’d promised to take her on dates and to kiss her just as long as she survived. She took off like an excited puppy when she recalled everything, and he couldn’t deny it. The theme song was playing as he called her “Baka.” That was him trying to put up a (weak) fight. He knew he got her good; he couldn’t explain away his fear when he thought she was dying.

Episode 5. “The best date” moment. He knew that she had put him in place (and shamed him) when she guilelessly told him that she was happy to go on post-operation dates with him with nothing more than a chocolate bread. The music came on then. He realized that he’d been wrong to keep their relationship secret. Dr. Koichi mistakenly thought he could date Nanase, and the head nurse also mistakenly thought that Nanase was “boy-crazy” when Nanase was his girlfriend all along. He did a disservice to Nanase when he ruled that they should date in secret.

Episode 6 to 10… Go ahead and check them out yourself. 🙂 (Or wait for my reviews)

Do you see that?

Hence, I said that LLF is different from Itazura. Yes, on the surface, it appears as if KoiTsudu is like Itazura — a static plot and misogynistic story about a girl incurably in love with this brilliant guy. But when we look at the movement of the plot of KoiTsudu, we can see that guy is learning to love somebody so unlike him, but he accepts her as part of his transformation.

Gotta run.

8 Comments On “Love Lasts Forever: KoiTsudu vs Itazura”

  1. Watching LLF felt good. Understanding why will help me as I watch other dramas in the future, so I appreciate the time and effort being taken here to analyze it. Unlike some dramas I’ve seen in the past (*cough* I’m looking at you, Something in the Rain), I wasn’t shouting at the characters on my screen, frustrated by their obtuse behavior. The characters and plot in LLF are seasoned with tropes, but the tropes aren’t everything: there’s plenty of meat, of substance.

    We can get behind Nanase because she’s not just a bumbling Pollyanna. She sets goals and works hard to attain them. She may be inexperienced and naive in some aspects, but she possesses superior wisdom when it comes to people skills.

    Tendo is defensive and prickly, but we see that this is armor he’s developed to protect his soft underbelly. Nanase is making him wrestle with human emotions he’s worked hard to avoid since the death of his first girlfriend. The emphasis of his character arc isn’t his wallowing in his grief, but his restoration to a healthy place emotionally and within his community (hospital, family).

  2. Thanks so much for this post, @pm3. I’ve started watching the drama and it is way better than Playful Kiss even though it uses a lot of the same tropes. I really like how Nanase revealed that Tendo guided her to becoming a nurse, key phrase is guided. Working with him that day she realized that she liked helping save people. She became a nurse because she liked the profession, she found her calling, not just because of Tendo (although he was the motivation for her to study hard and not give up when things got tough so she could work at the same hospital with him). Nanase has agency, she makes choices for herself, not just because the guy she likes is a doctor. Huge contrast with the FL of Playful Kiss who becomes a nurse soley because ML is a doctor so she can be around him 24/7, and be “worthy” of being his wife. The actual profession didn’t matter to her because the focus was all about him. If he wanted to take over the father’s company, she would have wanted to be a secretary.

    Also, we can see Tendo growing and changing due to his relationship with Nanse and he doesn’t continuously treat her like dirt. One of the things I really hated was how ML never changed and he treated FL terribly for the whole drama, even after they got married.

  3. Growing Beautifully (GB)

    Heh! @pkml3, the guy who admits his faults and gradually changes (like Mr Darcy!) and a girl who’s too good for him but loves him anyway. That and the pics of Pride and Prejudice plus ASD talk from Flower of Evil, have drawn me in. However I’m steeped in shows of crime-mystery detection with or without romance (Forest of Secrets 2, Flower of Evil… maybe re-checking on Forest of Secrets 1 as well!!) for now.

    The Tendo-Nanase romance sounds like one I can get behind! 🙂

  4. 🙂 I meant that post for you, Table122000.

    I’ve been looking for an adaptation of Itazura without the elements I found bothersome. As you said, the FL in Playful Kiss was so single-minded in her pursuit of the guy that I think she presents an unhealthy model of a heroine for young impressionable viewers. And the guy? Ugh!

    I thought the Thai version of this Playful Kiss was better. It fleshed out the hero’s back story so we understood why he was pushing her away. Something to do with animal cruelty, IIRC. 🙂

  5. Thanks for this post, @pm3. I am also waiting for a version of Itazura that leaves out the bad stuff so that I can understand the appeal of this plotline. I watched Korean version Playful Kiss when I had just discovered K Dramas because it was so highly recommended by people as a “must watch” drama. Ugh! I loathed it. People kept saying I needed to give the story a 2nd chance, the K version was no good, the Taiwan Version was so much better. So I watched It Started With A Kiss & They Kiss Again. Umm…Nope! It was just as rage-inducing, if not more. By nature I am a completist, and I have somewhat of a tolerance for “cute but dumb” FL and “cold hearted” ML types, but this drama I almost quit. The FL was so stupid I just could not take it anymore. And the ML..still just awful. Anyway, watching those 2 versions of this storyline turned me off this type of story.

    Yes, the female lead character is a stalker who has no self respect. She is continuously verbally and emotionally abused by the male lead. This is not love. Walk Away! He also tells her plainly many times that he is not interested in her, yet she ignores him and continues to force herself on him (and then gets more abuse). Respect boundaries, please. It is definitely an unhealthy relationship model for young women. Additionally, the characters do not grow or change.

    I like how in LLF Nanase Backs Off when she thinks Tendo has a girlfriend. She accepts the situation and moves on. Of course, she is sad, but she’s not going to give up on life, herself, or the possibility of a new relationship with someone else in the future. Complete contrast to Playful Kiss.

    I’ve heard good things about the Thai version as well. I really like the main lead actors, Mike & Aom. I saw them in the Thai version of Full House, which I really enjoyed.

    Thanks again for all your commentary about LLF. I am enjoying the drama and I would not have given it a try had you not posted about it.

  6. Itazura na Kiss is very old now, the manga was released in 1991. But the first drama version in 1996 was kinda cute. But yeah, I never was a big fan of the FL in the other versions.

    An Incurable Case of Love was released in 2016, so it’s nice to see writters deciding to make the FL more interesting now and not just an “object” for the ML’s story.

  7. I love Itazura an Kiss Japanese version Mischievous Kiss Love in Tokyo. But the thai version definitely fleshed him out a bit. I’m interested in LLF and from what you’ve said about it I’ll enjoy Nanase as a character. Great!

    I’m also now watching Flower of evil and I’m going to check out Forest of Secrets 2.

  8. Growing Beautifully (GB)

    Heh! I binge watched this series and was quite delighted with it. Speaking of ‘kiss’ the ones in this show started slow but ended up being fun, interesting and great!!!

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