Okay, your opinions please.
What’s your take on the father’s advice? He knew the background story of WH and YJ. Did he or didn’t he like them matched together? Did he think that WH (or YJ) wasn’t a “good person” for the other person? What did he mean?? lol.
WH was baffled, too.
Firstly, I like that Bieber – what do you mean??? LOL!
I was buffled too actually. I was listening intently and I was like WH after.
Did he mean that when you date you just like the person and you won’t think of going as far as adjusting your ways and life with that person whereas if you’re marrying, you need to know that their a good person because whatever happens, the good and the bad, they will be open minded and will always find the good in you.
The Dad was testing WH that’s why he asked the question already about marriage. But I feel that because of his strained relationship with YJ, his trying to tell him to find a good person. Which was WH’s nickname for YJ on his phone! 🙂 I want to know too what YJ nicknamed WH on her phone.
It feels that YJ didn’t talk to her Dad for 10 years right? And yes it was Dad who saved WH from the fire incident so YJ will resent WH because her Dad may have chosen to save him over her and her Mom? The badge is the key. We’ll just have to wait.
Please do enlighten us 🙂 Also I felt that he doesn’t mind WH for YJ but because YJ still haven’t forgiven him, WH cannot bring YJ over to the restaurant 🙂 Poor WH with his excitement! LOL!
Thanks, @agdr03! This time I can’t enlighten or obfuscate because I really don’t get it either. Uh oh. 🤪 But discussing it with you and others will help.
I agree with what you said about:
Dating = need a likable person
Marriage = need a good person to make union last. Goodness works both way. (Awesome point there!)
WH needs a good person. Hmmm… why? So far, I can only come up three reasons. Did I get everything?
A. bec he’s searching for someone who can restore his faith in marriage after witnessing his mom’s failed marriage.
B. bec he has abandonment issues after his dad left them. If YJ has daddy issues bec of the fire, he too has a deep-seated anger bec of his dad abandoning him for 30 of his 32 years of life. That’s why he’s agitated when YJ leaves without a word.
C. bec going forward, he needs someone who’ll stick by him, (as you said, @agdr03) whatever happens, the good and the bad. This good person will have to be open minded and find the GOOD in him, too.
Remember, too, he shouted at his father for abandoning his stepbrother bec HE failed to live up to expectations. According to stepmom, stepbrother has been good child, but bec of constant insecurity that the father would withdraw love and support, the stepbrother made mistakes. In WH’s mind, however, his father shouldn’t have abandoned son bec son made mistakes. He grew angry at his father for doing that.
Given WH’s pre-requisites for a good woman, I think YJ’s weakness will be #3. Oddly enough. 😂
Based on her track record, that is, her refusal to forgive her dad for the death of her mother, she isn’t the type to stick with it through “thick or thin.” After the accident (or the “thin” part of life), she cut off her Dad and now, we learned that she even banned her brother and friend to have contact with him. So in Dad’s mind, she’s not exactly a “good person” in the sense that she’s pitiless, heartless, unforgiving…
In a way, YJ is like WH’s father and WH himself. They all lack … hmmm…a quality of mercy.
YJ can’t forgive her dad in the same way that WH can’t forgive his dad. Look, I understand that they were badly hurt by these people. But at some point, their angry towards both fathers is warping them into “bad people.”
As it is, every time YJ offers help to WH, he turns apeshit crazy (or bad person). If she finds out that WH has been consorting with her “mom’s murderer” — the same person she BANNED her brother and friend to meet — then will she turn into a queen bitch and also ban WH from meeting him?
Lol. I think I’m getting it now. Their childhood traumas can make them future “bad persons” unless they resolve the problem and remove anger in them.
There it is, the whole point of the ‘good person’ 🙂
WH and YJ will definitely turn into ‘bad persons’ like you said when they found out how they are connected.
I have a feeling YJ will just break up with him when she finds out that her Dad saved WH at the expence of her Mom. I’m sure we will understand but YJ will reject it of course. It is amazing what so much anger can make one person do. Let’s see how they will forgive their Dads.
I noticed from the teaser that the BFF seems to have feelings for YJ after all? I thought he was gay hahaha that’s why YJ initially said no we cannot make him as the boyfriend.
Ohhh we get hugs too now from our milk couple starting next week. Yey! 🙂
We’re like two peas in a pod. Ditto: I thought BFF was gay from HER comment (either gay or he was physically abused so having intimate contact/skinship with her would be a no-no).
And then when he drew that elephant joke on his arm…okaaay? That was lame.
But if she’s friend-zoned him… I don’t know whether to snort or to wince.
So…is that the whole point of the “good person” admonition of the dad then? As a prophetic warning that not all is revealed between WH and YJ, and the true test of a good person is ability to forgive even when it hurts? lol. I guess it does tie it with the way YJ walked out after that confrontation with the loan officer. First, she said her piece (which I agreed with. You shouldn’t leave an argument without defending yourself or explaining your side). Then, she turned her back and told him that the contract dating was off. So, she can walk away again if she thinks that WH’s relationship with her father is something she can’t compromise with.
I guess being a “good person” too also means compromising your loved one.
Oh well, we’ll know in the upcoming episodes I guess. We’re only in Episode 6 so the twist/angsty party should come next week.
I will leave it here ok and come back tomorrow. I want to rewatch episode 5 🙂 I haven’t read your post on Goblin yet. I will read it tomorrow.
Have a good day! 😉
Good night! It’s morning here and I’m on my second cup of coffee already (and second croissant, ugh!)
Skipped my morning jog to answer all YOUR posts (lol). But there’s still snow outside so I couldn’t jog anyway.
I don’t even know who BFF is in real life 🙁 Sorry not sorry! Oh to add, they way they talk in the meeting after the car chase, it sounded like there was a spy right? I have a feeling it’s the BFF.
Yes, the forgiveness, the compromise and loving that person unconditionally with all your heart. WH owes his life to YJ’s Dad so he cannot just cut ties with him because YJ does not like it. Let’s see how it will pan out. I want YJ to be jealous as well.
I forgot to say that when our couple looks at each other with ‘that’ look, I get giddy, I want to squeel! hehehehe
I usually only have 1 coffee a day but since I’ve been watching a few dramas I have 2 now hahahah
2 Croissants sounds yummy! We will have hotdogs for tomorrow with bread rolls 🙂
I only did answer all your posts too. I actually use our computer for once, not since W&C hahaha
Laters! 😉
lol. Here we go with our conspiracy theories again. Here’s my outrageous one. The guy who stabbed her? That’s the BFF. lol. I thought he could have been a) a random stalker or b) someone hired by the Kanghan group. By that knife attack is personal. Going AFTER her even when he saw that WH was right there with YJ showed a lack of patience… as if he suddenly became ENRAGED. Do you see what I mean?
The stabbing attempt is what I’d call a “crime of passion.” The BFF would have reason to feel intense jealousy at seeing her drive off with WH. He didn’t even wait for another more opportune time to injure her. He just chased after her like a bull in Pamplona.
Interesting discussion, but it’s kind a hardfor me to think the one who stabbed JY is BFF.. can it be someone who crazy marriage lady people? It more make sense for me..
Regarding the tag necklace, its really interesting that both YJ and WH have same kind of necklace. We know the reason why WH has it, but what the reason for YJ? She hates her father who was firefighter but why still keep the necklace? Whose necklace?
And I do love their progress is funny seeing WH jealousy.. and that last scene in episode 6 makes me curious, will he kiss him or not? The whole conversation are flirting! Hehehe.. hope you analyze it.. I always love to read your post which mention each detail and analyze it.. its so fun and make warching FW more fun!
Sorry that maybe i came here un related to your post… but you keep spoiled us with ur post (which i dont mind at all) and then commenting in each post would be kind a hard for me… thank you
Don’t take my conspiracy theory on BFF seriously. 😂 I was just throwing it out there. If it works, it works. But if it doesn’t, it doesn’t.
And don’t worry about being “out of topic” or posting in the wrong section. 🙂 I don’t mind. I’m not a cray-cray mod who’ll ban people because of “Out of Topic!”
Her dog tag is interesting. We know WH got his from YJ’s Dad but we’ll know soon enough why she’s got one too. Here in US, a dog tag is used by military personnel. It comes as a set of TWO so that would explain why WH has one and YJ has the other. It comes as a pair bec one tag will remain with the corpse of the soldier for identification while the other tag will be used for notifying the family of the deceased.
If you served in any branch of the military, you’ll be given one. I don’t know if that’s the case in SKorea.
Yes, I have this crazy thing about analyzing every bit of nuance in a conversation. 😆 If you just want to watch the show without thinking, you better not come to this blog.
It’s funny that you mentioned that last scene. I saw grumblings in Viki that this scene was stupid. 🙄🙄 Comments like that really tells me more about the poster/commentator’s state of mind rather than the kdrama writer’s.
Geez, you really cannot please everybody! Just don’t watch or comment! 🙄
That scene was a typical drama cliffhanger but it does make sense because he just confessed that he doesn’t kiss anyone he does not have feelings for. It could only be a dream sequence too where YJ imagines that WH will prove to her that his feelings is true.
Ah moving on 🙂
The bff is coming on very strong now base on that teaser. Also, I think the secret that he told YJ is that he is gay, just so he could remain close to her without her knowing that he likes her. That’s why your theory could actually work. I mean WH just came out of nowhere but he’s now YJ’s fake boyfriend. Bff would be very hurt. Also, it seems like the company is not really prioritizing him in a way that they do YJ. It’s only them two that’s shareholders right? I feel he is very jealous and insecure especially with WH around.