21 Comments On “Destined With You: Eps 9 & 10 Open Thread”

  1. I never got around to watching episodes 7&8. The ML has beautiful hands but his backbone needs work. I think I’m going to drop this one at the same place I dropped My Lovely Liar and depend on you all to fill me in on the happenings. Happy watching and thanks for your discussion 🙂

  2. Thank you! 🙂

    This is my fave scene from the last 2 episodes. I like a guy who knows what can give you comfort and really just basic respect for small people, like me. LOL!

  3. Kalimera @Packmule3 et al!

    I really like Rowoon and how far he has come. I salute him for his decision to leave his band SF9 and focus on acting!

    Today I will catch up with the last three episodes of “Moving”, so I will be kinda late for “Destined With You”. I am anxious to see how Shin Yu ended on a coma.

  4. @agdr03, I loved that scene too. It was a simple heart warming gesture, even though they were squabbling 😅. It is like his care for her leaked out with that gesture.

    @Cleopatra, Rowoon is growing on me and I feel like his acting skills is improving. I remembered when we first watched him in Extraordinary You, he was still so green. I remembered @pm3 mentioning about a scene where his acting was a bit lacking.

    I too, salute him for leaving SF9 to focus on acting. It will be an area he can and should grow. Will hopefully catch up with the show by this weekend!

  5. @packmule3, you mentioned the disparity between the ML being able to see the past and the FL being unable. It looks like this will be queried in episode 10 if the previews can be trusted.

  6. Seriously NaYeon, how more sinister you are? 🤮🤮🤮

  7. Did I miss something? This episode left me cold? The romantic music was very nice but i’m not feeling it

  8. @Monmor – I think this is a drama that is better if the two weekly episodes are watched as a single set piece. The editing is abrupt only to have the rest of the scene revealed later or the next episode. I thought the Joseon flashback was a bit of a snooze, but I expect it will get more interesting when he either is expected to marry who his Dad selects or goes off to the military. Did I miss how Joseon SY knew HJ could see the future? Is that because she knew about the letter from his mother? As the storyline becomes more serious with the flashbacks, curses, and black magic – I hope the humor isn’t lost.

    His parents bickering was super obnoxious – curious where that is leading because no reason to give it so much screen time.

  9. Hey @GoodTwin,

    HJ in her previous reincarnation was staying with a Shaman. She was the girl they left outside the shrine, which btw belongs to the Jang Family.

    Shin Yu in his previous reincarnation knew about her ability. They met as children and she told him about the letter and most likely he knew that she was to become the next Shaman.

  10. I like the return of the bloody hand. The break up with his ex took way too long
    Anyway, what I want to say, I was under the impression Shin-yu was told Hong Jo is the owner of the red hand, and that he killed her in the first episode.
    And he never addressed it, acted surprised to feel the bloody hand on the beach when well.. it was to be expected he’d feel that as soon as she touches his face.
    I went back to see again the first episode to understand why he didn’t get it
    He was asking the old lady why she allowed the request to demolish the shrine to Hong Jo, a stranger.
    Why did you allow it to a stranger? he asks. And the old lady reacts to the stranger remark with a head tilt, coming towards him, like no no, boy, that’s no stranger.
    What the old lady actually says:

    It’s a woman you killed
    The owner of the bloody hand that caresses you cheek
    Karma will swallow you and you will struggle in horrible pain
    But all the pain and curses will end.
    Finally, the owner of the wooden box showed up.

    And he acts after like he understood that he’s been told Hong Jo is the owner of the wooden box. But he never addresses the fact he’s also been told she’s the owner of the bloody hand.
    And they waste screen time with him stuck with his girlfriend.
    This show started with a lot of potential and ended up kind of a mess..

  11. I have to agree with @Oli about the potential of the show in the beginning and now I’m just frustrated because it did take long for SY to break up and so all the ‘feels’ that I’m supposed to feel is not there. 😞

    I wanted it to be pure too when they get together but it’s episode 10 already so maybe they’ll just be happy in the last episode. 😂

    That bgm with the fireworks (though it was nice) and the saranghae didn’t give me that connection. I thought it was like the ost from Descendants of the Sun. I think they might be the same singer too. 😊 I didn’t bother to check the song.

    @Cleopatra, NaYeon made me so angry with her antics especially the visits with the garden man so the actress is doing a good job. 😁

  12. I wonder if it is Lynn or Gummy. Will need to check. It is interesting to me that you recall descendants of the sun. Another show where the romance Between the main couple left me cold.

    I was confused because I thought he had broken up with her But their behavior is as though they are still together. This episode reminded me that he had promised her he would not break up with her while she was working at city hall to spare her embarrassment. I am afraid this will be giving her ammunition against him with their parents. After all they are still planning a wedding.

  13. in both this show and descendants of the sun, I did not enjoy the female lead’s characterization Of the main characters.

  14. @Monmor , I thought it was only after the fireworks scene that SY decided to finally break up with NY. That’s why he said they both must remain pure until then.

    So after breaking up SY promised NY that he won’t tell that they’ve broken up to save her embarrassment at the city hall.

    I mean really, he could have told that to HJ straight away coz that was the whole point of being together after he said I love you.

    Oh maybe it’s Gummy. And I did like Descendants of the Sun. 😊

  15. I thought it was earlier on that he broke up with ny and made this promise. Even so, you are right that he could have Told hj. There is an interesting theory over on mdl that the second female lead Is using Black magic to keep sy tied to her. I find the pacing of this show is off. I think we should be more familiar with. What happened in the past than we are at this point?

  16. Sounds like we are all a little confused. There are probably too many gaps at this point that they surely aren’t telling us else the story unravels too soon.

    So…we have this questions…
    1. Red hand – when and why does it appear? Why was there a gap in its appearance, from the car accident to this end of episode 10.

    2. Why wasn’t SY forthright with HJ about what he promised NY from the beginning. (This is also the typical drama problem, not being honest/sharing critical info with your other half)

    Also what spell did she make again?? On who? I need to go back and watch that scene again.

    3. Who has the real black magic?
    Which brings us to the question of whether HJ’s spells really worked, or was it the gardener’s spell?? 😱

    @oli & @agdr03,
    While it is frustrating that the break up is so long drawn, I accept that this part and parcel of the angst they will put us through. I’m sure NY has a part in the past life…she is the evil one here… or who could be the enemy of SY and HJ? Do you think she was betrothed to past life SY?

  17. I LOOKED UP THE SONG AND IT IS Lynn.

  18. YES SHE SANG THE ROMANTIC OST FOR DESCENDANTS OF THE SUN, MY LOVE FROM THE STAR AND THE KINGS AFFECTION, ALSO STARRING ROWOON.

  19. I hope the reappearance of the red hand heralds the beginning of the Joseon time frame in this show, so we can stop guessing and understand better. I am not perturbed that much by the male lead’s relationship with his supposed fiancé, because I see it as likely a reenactment of what happened in their past lives and we do not know enough about that yet.

  20. @Monmor the best thing about the red hand was reading @packmule’s and @cleopatra’s exchange about the red hand. Although this drama is unfolding a bit messily – I do enjoy it and I am enjoying Rowoon quite a bit especially in the humorous scenes. He is so pretty I have found him distracting in other roles – but this role seems a good fit and his acting is getting better.

  21. Intriguing scene…

    The scene which the gardener wrapped HJ’s gloves with Say’s clothes and covered it with blood and buried it. Then the resugence of the bloody hand.

    What if there is another shaman besides HJ in their past lives and the gardener is the shaman reincarnated? Could it be that the gardener can remember past lives and is the one putting the curse on SY?

    Hopefully can get some answers soon.

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